Agenda

Straight into the reception. Drinks, appetizers and handshakes.

Gather around the couple while they get married and say nice things about each other.

No sit-down dinner or getting stuck at a table. Food will be passed around all night while you hang out.

Speeches, games, dancing and shenanigans.

Closing time. You don't have to go home but you can't stay at the venue.

See where the night takes us.

Vibe

Relaxed ceremony

Fun deserts

Cocktail dinner

Games

MORE THIS

Breheny Bros Beer

Chill vibes

21st speeches

House party Style

Bouquet Toss

Sit-down dinner

First Dance

Aisle walking

Less THIS

Place settings

Champagne tower

Cake cutting

Band

Dress Code*

*Ultimately wear whatever you're comfortable in.
We're just putting this in here so you don't text us.

Semi-Casual

Skip the tuxedo, formal dress and Windsor knots. But also, avoid ultra casual look like you are lounging on a Sunday.

Dress up?

'Dress up' doesn't mean dress formally. It means wear an outfit that makes you feel confident, excited and, dare I say, cool. Don't be afraid of color. Fit in by standing out.

Risk

You know that thing in your closet you love but don't like wearing because people might make fun. Maybe it's a leather jacket or a tiny gold chain. Whatever it is, I'm giving you permission to rock it.

Unique

Whatever your style, lean into it.

Party shirt alert! Everyone loves a party shirt, especially good in the summer.

If you love a suit, then wear a suit. But keep it a little casual by removing the tie and keeping one hand in your pocket at all times.

Too hot for pants, then why not try some shorts. See that tiny gold chain, maybe that's his 'risky' accessory. Is that a singlet with a pocket? the choices are endless.

These guy made a show about dressing better than straight men so I have to assume they're dressed correctly.

Don't want to go wild? Keep it simple if that's your vibe.

Polo shirts are back! 'This guy has sneakers, can I wear sneakers?' Yes.

This works, but unfortunately you will need to wear shoes. Venue policy (not mine).

Long fancy dress and background blocks? Absolutely.

Do you like wrapping belts around the outside of suit jackets? Then do I have some good news for you.

An outfit so chic you might startle yourself.

So relaxed and cool no one will notice your indoor sunglasses.

If you're feeling adventurous, why not come as seven women.

On Saturdays we wear lavender.

Flowers always accepted.

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Our story

Robin was born in Hawaii but grew up in Alaska. She moved to NYC at 22, attended Georgetown Law at 25, and works for Legal Aid as a public defender. She's currently writing her first novel, helping the local cat rescue and/or eating beans.

Julian was born in Australia, but grew up partially in South East Asia. He works in advertising, but moved to NYC to become a comic and eat 99 cent pizza.

The Hinge photo that started it all

Day trip to Beacon (first photographed date)

Rooftop bar for 4th date

Date interrupted by rain

First Halloween

Philadelphia trip

First Thanksgiving

Penguins

First Valentines day

Starting podcast together

Putting up posters for our Hell Yeah Comedy show

Starting custom calendar tradition

Fun engagement shoot

We like pranks

Robin started it 2 years ealier

Thanks to Kieran Murray

Jokes aside, now onto celebrating

Thanks Gary and Adam for the cameo from our fav personal trainer Rick!

FAQ

Did you already get married in America?
Yes we did! But lots of our favourite people couldn't attend so we're doing it again, bigger and better than ever.

When is the ceremony?
At 7:30pm we will gather people around for the 'marriage' part of the festivities. These should last around 25 minutes. Then at 9:00pm we will have a block of speeches that will also take around 25 minutes.

Will there be food?
This is not a sit-down dinner, but there will be food passed around through the whole evening. And it will be substantial enough for you to be very full and do a sneaky belt unbuckle.

Will there be drinks?
Yes we'll be providing beers, wine, spirits, champagne and cocktails.

Will there be Breheny Bros Beer?
Nothing but.

Can my kids come?
Unfortunately this will be a kid-free wedding. I'm sure your little ones are rad AF, but if I let them in then i'll have to let the lame ones in too.